The first promise which I want from your side , is as you read the contents of this web site , just try to be truthful in what ever is asked and apply the rules which are shared with you.

" Rules work only if you work for those"

Remember the last moment you were criticized by your parents , peer group , boss. How you felt ? , Not good really isn't it.

 

Its the same what others feel when we try to criticize and condemn them. The self esteem of the person is directly hurt whenever we use harsh words and criticize , whereby making the relations strained. Criticism always demoralizes employees and people in your peer group or your children.

 

Rule is to try to understand why the other person did what he did , and imagine your self in same situation he was which made him to react the way he did.

 

We are always in some mood to regulate and correct , change others , lets try to apply all those rules onto ourselves and then try to apply those to others.No matter what situation is never write humiliating letter , email , or say such kind of words to others , Criticism is like homing pigeon that will always come back to you and ultimately , you are the one who is going to feel bad due to this.

 

Human beings are driven by emotions , that was most important fact we must and must understand while dealing with people , its shows lots and lots of character to show calmness.

Golden Rule

Don't Condemn people , this is what strains the relations and hurts self esteem

 

Thanks for reading and please do post your comments , I shall be happy to read and reply to all your valuable suggestions.